This is for those who have found self in a situationship and are desperately in need of an exit before it is too late. Speaking from experience I can guarantee you that no matter how strong the love he has for you is, he must break!
Watch out for these four situations that can make a man lose interest in his woman. Though these behaviors are mostly what men complain about, it doesn’t mean the females condone it too.
Men would drop you for your uncertain and turbulent attitude
A little indecision is completely normal and appropriate. What isn’t good is when women absolutely cannot make a decision; in every situation, their behavior is wild and unpredictable. Their opinions and moods are constantly changing, which only confuses their partner. Men can’t keep up with a flaky, unreliable woman. After devoting his best to try and understand, he gets discouraged, loses interest and gives up.
If you are self-doubting, forget him
There isn’t a man alive who can withstand a woman who has endless bouts of jealousy and insecurities. If a woman distrusts everything, nose into her man’s business, and always plays the victim, this will weaken the relationship. Daily demonstrations of low self-esteem and pity are difficult to manage. From a man’s point of view, endless crises without any rhyme or reason to them all detonates any interest he may have in the girl.
Criticize him and force him to change
A woman who wants to dramatically change her partner’s behavior, attitude, or even financial status causes serious problems in a relationship. This type of behavior gives the man the impression that nothing he does is good enough. Even if he does something right, he fails. Being with someone who has this attitude can seriously danger the relationship.
No one can live very long feeling totally worthless. Trying to inspire or push your partner to their best self is a great goal to have, but if you are making him into something he’s not, you are in the wrong. Never emphasizing the good and only pointing out the bad is a quick way for your man to lose interest. If you want him to run, start forcing now!
Being controlling
Bossy women are on the top of the list when it comes to what men do not like. Women who always take control, always have a solution, care about everything too much and are dead set on their opinions are too much to handle. A ‘my way or the highway’ attitude doesn’t allow any sort of teamwork with your partner. Bossy women are controlling, possessive, and negative.
You better start being that boss lady if you want him to leave you.