Extramarital affairs are very common amongst men and women, discovering that a spouse has cheated or even having such suspicion can be a devastating and emotional experience for a partner.
Dealing with infidelity is one of life most stressful and annoying event as it often time lead to rejection, betrayal, anger, sadness and lack of trust.
In this modern age, family life which was considered as divine has turned out to be a necessary social structure which is overpowered by materialistic factors.
Men seldom get satisfied with one partner. The physical and mental nature of men tempts them always to strive for more. Thus, comparably, men are found to get into more number of affairs than women.
An extramarital affair of a husband can spoil the entire harmony of the family life. What is expected from a family life or husband wife relationship is mutual understanding, lifelong trust and unbreakable affection.
Signs of a cheating husband
Less time spent with the family
Many husbands, when in an affair, reduce the time spend with the family. It is when the person feels less interest in the wife of current family life, that he gets into affairs. Avoiding the wife or entire family by not being present in the family can be a sign of an affair of the husband.
Keeping secrets
A person with an extramarital affair may tend to keep secrets from the wife. He may not want wife to know every occurrence in his life and prefers being alone than being with the wife. Most often the guilt feeling in the subconscious mind prompts them to stay away from the wife and hold back secrets from her.
Suspicious phone calls
Cell phone conversation of the husband helps many wives to identify if the husband is in an affair. Observe the mode and modulation of your husband’s telephone conversation. If he disconnects the phone or change the topic as soon as he sees you, then you can suspect him having an affair.
Immediate trips or late night arrival
When your husband goes for trips so often which were not pre-planned or pre-informed, then possibly, he may have an affair. It is only the wife can recognize such behavior changes of husband. If you observe that from a time onwards the husband starts arriving late at home habitually, then he can be suspected for an affair.
Unnecessary explanations
Husbands with an affair are found to get into the habit of giving unnecessary explanation for each and every instance in life. When you walk across him while he is on a phone call, he may stop talking and will tell you some unknown person’s name he was talking to and some unreasonable subject of conversation.
Listening to the instincts
Behavior experts say that listening to the instincts is the best way of understanding if the husband is proceeding with an affair along with the family life. A wife being the person, who knows the husband completely, can very well understand even a slight change in his life.