Intimacy and communication is very important in any relationship and cannot overemphasized.
It is important for men and women to understand the differences in feelings and actions each gender has when it comes to sex. This article specifically deals with how men handle sex, and in return, how women can keep them interested, even after years of marriage.
Show interest too
Many women are shy about expressing their sexual desires; however, it’s healthy to discard prejudices (the mentality of woman’s place in a society) and express what you want. Husbands want their wives to initiate sex instead of making excuses when he seeks it. Having both spouses initiate sex creates a healthy and inclusive sexual relationship.
Always be well groomed
Many women neglect themselves over time. Try to stay well-groomed and healthy. Do what you need to develop a good self-esteem. It doesn’t cost a lot to please the eyes of someone you love.
Darling, you should learn to love yourself
Don’t be so hard on yourself, no. There is only so much you can do. While it will help you feel better to do the above, also realize we all have imperfections, and your husband loves you the way you are. Insecurities like, “I’m overweight,” or “I do not like my body,” can greatly impair sexual life. Love and value yourself. Highlight what you like about yourself and draw his attention to it.
Simple things count too
Look for the small things he enjoys about life. Doing those little things throughout the day can help you both feel more in love. When the time comes to be intimate, it comes more naturally for you both. This is a great weapon of seduction.
Give everything, body and soul
Life is full of stress, especially if you do not want to live an ordinary one. You may need to take some time to release negative emotions about him before you can have a desire to be intimate. Learn to focus on the positive. Healthy sexual relationships can help strengthen the love you feel for each other.