Dear Mimi,
Last year my husband of six years and I decided we needed to spice up our sex life. During our christmas vacation in Dubai last year, we ran into an ex girlfriend of my husband from his university days. This woman was pleasant and pretty and we all ended up having dinner together. After the dinner we went to a bar to have drinks and one thing led to another and she and I started kissing. I was afraid my husband will be angry but he encouraged us to go on. After we left the bar, the lady went to her hotel and my husband and I went to ours. In the morning my husband and I talked about the night and I suggested that we invite his ex into our bed for a threesome. The agreement will be that we will enjoy her for the rest of the five days we were in Dubai and once we return back home we would forget about it. We talked with the lady and she agreed. She moved into our hotel room and we had sex with each other non-stop. It was amazing. At the end of the vacation we said our good byes and that was that. My husband and I agreed we will not communicate with her after the vacation but she and I secretly kept in touch. Last month she showed up at my house to inform me that she was pregnant for my husband and also in love with me. She wants us to marry her and all live together but I do not think my husband will agree to this. Also how will we explain this to our family? I think I am in love with her too but I am not gay, or am I? I don’t know. Help me!
-Three is Company
Dear Three Is Company,
What exactly do you need help with? You and your husband seem to be able to communicate and you both invited this woman into your lives and so you should both deal with her. I can’t tell you if you are gay or not but I can ask what you want out of life? Do you want to remain with your husband? Do you have children? Do you think you can handle a polygamous relationship? Talk to your husband, discuss everything together and be prepared to welcome the new child. I wish you luck.
Love,
Mimi
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