Popular Nigerian singer, Rema, whose real name is Divine Ikubor, opened up about how the death of his father profoundly impacted his perspective on life. He shared that before the loss of his father, Mr. Ikubor, he didn’t take life seriously and was known for being extremely playful and uncoordinated.
In a recent interview on the Afrobeats podcast hosted by Adesope Olajide, Rema candidly expressed that the passing of his father was a life-altering event. It shaped his mindset, mood, and overall outlook on life. He used to be colorful, funny, and carefree, but everything changed after the loss.
Rema highlighted how losing his father made him realize the significance of family and the value of the relationships with his loved ones. He emphasized the importance of cherishing family bonds, even amidst the usual fights and quarrels among siblings. The experience served as a wake-up call, making him understand the fragility of life and the unpredictability of when we might lose the people we hold closest to our hearts.
Rema fondly recalled how his father used to call him a soldier, possibly referring to his resilience and determination. This emotional journey of grief and self-discovery has played a significant role in shaping Rema into the person he is today, influencing his music and artistic expressions in profound ways.