A former sex worker with an alleged body count of over 10,000 men, has highlighted some of her opinions of ‘what do men REALLY want’ in a book titled “being financially successful in the sex industry.”
Gwyneth Montenegro a 39 year old from Australia, was a prostitute for over 12 years.
In her book she explained how men needed to feel wanted. She said: “It is their ultimate fantasy after all.”
She said that it is vital, therefore that whatever sex acts you are doing, “you make look like you want him bad and are enjoying him so much (even if you aren’t).”
Gwyneth said that many girls in the industry try to “outdo” other women with the acts or techniques they use, but this is to be avoided.
She said: “Don’t try and keep up with, or outdo anyone else, or this can backfire. You only want to work within your boundaries.
“They are regular everyday men who just want some fun, and they want to know that you are having fun too.”
One of the biggest questions shes asked is whether breast enlargements would help them, the former sex worker
revealed there is a man for every type of body:
She wrote: “If you’ve got them, there’s a market. If you don’t, there’s a market too. I wouldn’t lose too much sleep over it.
“A little-known secret in the punting world, is that there are quite a lot of men who will actively seek out escorts who are not the hottest of the hot women and go for someone who isn’t as classically beautiful, because they feel shy and sometimes a little inadequate themselves.
“You don’t have to be the hottest femme fatale, but as long as you are well groomed, comfortable and confident in your own skin, have a great vibe, energetic and you are professional…then this is what it takes.
“There are many, many different women of all shapes, ages, sizes and backgrounds than you can think of making money from their body.”
“One of the biggest myths is that men only want younger women” Gwyenth stated
But in her experience, women can be successful at any age She even wrote about a woman who started escorting at the age of 83, and carried on for four years charging around $325 an hour.
In fact, she pointed out, many men want a genuine conversation and connection
She said: “Talking to one of my amazing male friends, who is in his early 50s, he said ‘Well that makes sense. Can you see me wanting to book a 22-year-old? If I wanted to have some conversation and connection and to feel like I was getting the attention I wanted, do you think a 22-year-old would necessarily give me that kind of service?’”
When it comes to the clothes you wear, she said: “You don’t have to have ‘it all hanging out’ to make money in this business.”
She said that men like a bit of mystery and would rather pay for something that other men don’t always get to see.
“You don’t have to slut yourself out in how you dress, to get the attention of the men.”
Gwyneth revealed she had written the guide to empower women thinking of entering the industry and to teach them how to survive.
In my line of work I am approached by practicing escorts almost weekly and the trend is alarming. More and more reveal that they are disheartened, bitter, broken and financially struggling. They are desperate.
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How could I sit back and stay quiet, when I know how it’s done? With my much talked about 10,091 encounters behind me I don’t need the knowledge any more, so I passed it on.”