You know how boys go on and on about girls being over erratic at the slightest altercation? Well most girls are not like that…okay some–okay you win, maybe few.
Just like in most part of their lives, girls tend to give more attention to details in a relationship. On the other hand, men tend to focus on the more obvious details.
Here is a list of things that girls care for in a relationship more than guys.
Dates of everything matter
From the first day you meet, to the first day you held hands, to the first day you kiss… most girls have these dates stored in a compartment in their brain (how do these girls do this! lol).
Some girls will not let go of any chance to make those moments a bit more special. On occasions such as these, the artist in them comes out and they will do everything to make your day special, this might include some private time, a surprise party or cooking you a feast.
How do I look?
This is really about self-esteem if you look deep. While you might just take a bath and throw on a new pair of jeans for date night, you need to know and acknowledge the fact that it took your lady love a lot more time and effort to look good for YOU. She might have spent hours to pick the perfect dress and pair it with the perfect set of shoes. Hair, nails, makeup and jewellery had a lot of thought put into them. We do all of this because honestly we want you to be in a state of awe when you set your eyes upon us (secretly it is not about you though, we want other girls to stare *wink)
What is in your phone?
Well, personally I find it obsessive constantly wanting know what is in someone’s phone. But it is not about me, is it? So let us have the conversation about what some girls say.
We just need to know, I know it might seem like a total invasion of your private space but we absolutely need to know each and everything you do. The locks on your phone make us skeptical, we trust you, of course we do, but we love snooping around on your phone. It’s not suspicion that drives us crazy, it’s the LOVE. So let us check your phone, it’s the biggest assurance you could give us! Just do us a favour and keep it unlocked and maybe with the passage of time, maybe, we will grow over this obsession of ours.
Social media, Social threat
I am Female but I still do not understand how females find it necessary to display their FBI skills on social media… When I asked, again this is what some girls have to say.
Whatever happens on social media is a big deal for girls. From your relationship status to that person who likes your pictures, everything matters to us. Women are more social than men in general, men are habitual of keeping their troubles and achievements to themselves, while women are more prone to interact with people and discuss their lives out openly.
This may lead us to believe that any unusual changes on your social media accounts might be a red flag. As far as men are concerned, social media is the least of their worries. Men don’t care who likes their pictures or who might view the things that they post on social media. Still, if it makes your lady happy, go ahead and accept that relationship status request!
I rest my case! Note how I continually used ‘some girls’ because not every girl is part of this band wagon, so, I will like to hear your view on this.