We all have met that one person that is our air, that we breathe in and cannot exhale without them. We read their words religiously like a book, we watch their lip movements and worship their voice. Even their lies are holy to us. We just want to hear anything from them, something, anything good or terrible.
No matter how bad they treat us all we see is good, you can toss all your morals and your brilliance and sophistication to high horses just to be a fool with this person or have a minute of them…until you realize, oh my! I’m infatuated! Damn!
Okay, back to us… stumbled across an article and thought I should share what I learnt for those that have fallen to the ground.
And if you have not met this person yet, here are the signs to look out for:
You are the last on their list, scratch that…you are not on the list
I have seen a lot of people in my life who are always working hard, without having any time to spend with their family and friends. These kinds of people always make up for lost time on weekends or off days. The absolute truth is if are important to someone, they will give you all their 5 minutes.
Don’t be surprised that these people will be dozing off on their bed, without even bothering to return your texts or calls. It is quite unfortunate that lying in the bed for a few more minutes is more important to them than reciprocating someone’s love.
Booty call, booty call
He treats you like you don’t mean anything to him all day and suddenly his hormones start to sizzle, and love just seems to appear out of nowhere. The only time you get a call or a text from him is when he is horny.
He only wants sex and that is where you need to be careful. You can’t let someone take advantage of you just because they want to fulfill their own sexual desires. You are not something that he can just use and throw away. Except you want to be their muse though otherwise if he wants a piece of your naked body, he needs to satisfy your naked soul first.
This person is so self centered
Relationships are built on sacrifice and compromise. He always acts like a child who always wants to get his way on stuff you want dearly. He will start to make a mountain out of a mole hill on matters which should not even matter in the first place. He will always be ready to start a quarrel with you and make you feel like you’re the one who’s at fault. The blame game never ends for him. It just goes on and on. I know this for real.
This person always want to satisfy their self and doesn’t in any way care about you or your feelings. They tell you stuff and don’t remember anything you tell them. It is all about them!
They never appreciate or compliment your efforts
The annoying part is that if the person complains about something like your hair and then points at another he likes. Even if the whole world likes that one on you, you will change it to that one he pointed at almost immediately just to catch a compliment from him–but guess what? That is not going to happen.
There are some guys out there who will compliment you when you’re not even trying that hard to impress them. They will notice the little things about you that even you are unaware of. Beauty sure is in the eyes of the beholder and if the guy you’re in a relationship with can’t notice these hidden things about you and make you believe in them, then he doesn’t deserve to be with you. He has nothing new to offer to the relationship.
Love is such a curse, but what else do we know?