Grammy-winning Nigerian singer Tems has shared her candid thoughts on men’s agendas in relationships, stating that many approach romance with only one goal in mind: sex. In a teaser for the upcoming episode of “Flow with Korty,” Tems revealed her experiences with men who prioritize physical intimacy over genuine connection.
When asked by host Korty EO if she had ever been in love, Tems replied, “A lot of guys, they are very obvious… There is no agenda but to penetrate.” Her response suggests that many men prioritize sexual conquest over building meaningful relationships.
Tems also opened up about her personal struggles with being misunderstood and bullied due to her reserved nature. She recalled being constantly criticized for her slow speech and demeanor, which led to feelings of frustration and anger. However, she found solace in her music, which became an outlet for her emotions and a source of strength.