As the world celebrated Valentine’s Day, Nigerian media personality and content creator, Toke Makinwa, took the opportunity to share her insights on love, encapsulating ten valuable lessons she wished she had learned earlier in life. In a thoughtful post accompanied by ten slides, Makinwa touched on aspects ranging from self-love to relationship dynamics, offering guidance to her followers navigating the complexities of love.
The first lesson highlighted by Makinwa emphasized the principle that love should never be something one has to beg for in life. Setting the tone for her reflections, she urged individuals not to compromise on the essence of genuine, reciprocal love.
Lesson two delved into the significance of effective communication. Makinwa advised against repeating oneself constantly, emphasizing that if someone fails to comprehend or care, it may be time to let them go.
Addressing life negotiations in lesson three, Makinwa stressed the importance of keeping discussions centered around practical matters like money, living arrangements, and job positions, without compromising one’s self-worth.
The fourth lesson brought the focus back to self-love, with Makinwa reminding her audience that they are their own true love. She encouraged individuals to prioritize their mental health, emphasizing that nothing brings more peace than a healthy state of mind.
Lesson six emphasized the importance of adjusting one’s life to the absence of certain individuals rather than lowering boundaries to accommodate disrespect. Makinwa’s insights aimed to empower her audience to maintain self-respect and uphold healthy boundaries in relationships.
In lesson seven, Makinwa acknowledged the challenges of love but underscored its beauty. She emphasized the necessity of mutual commitment and effort in making love work, making it worthwhile despite occasional difficulties.
The eighth lesson echoed the sentiment of never settling for less. Makinwa urged her followers to carefully choose their life partners, recognizing the profound impact such decisions can have on one’s life.
The post also encouraged those who are single to embrace their solo journey, discovering and loving themselves. Additionally, Makinwa reminded her audience of the unchanging and unwavering love from their creator, highlighting the significance of the relationship with one’s faith.
As a bonus lesson, Makinwa emphasized that red flags won’t magically turn green, advising against overlooking warning signs in relationships.