In a recent interview with media personality Toke Makinwa, renowned Nigerian comedian and skitmaker Bukunmi Adeaga-Ilori, popularly known as Kiekie, made a candid revelation about her approach to sharing financial responsibilities in her marriage.
Kiekie, a mother of one, disclosed that she actively participates in covering the costs of rent and other household bills alongside her husband. She explained that she firmly believes in contributing her fair share towards the expenses of the home they share. This stance, she emphasized, is rooted in the idea of equal ownership of the property, which can prove crucial in times of conflict.
“I wouldn’t feel comfortable living in a house without contributing towards the payment of rent,” Kiekie stated during the interview, highlighting her commitment to sharing financial responsibilities within her marriage. She firmly believes that when both partners share the financial burden, it fosters a sense of equality and mutual respect.
Kiekie’s viewpoint on the matter is clear: if a woman can afford to contribute to rent and other expenses, she should do so willingly. This philosophy, she argues, ensures that both partners have an equal stake in their shared home and are equally invested in its maintenance.
In response to Kiekie’s perspective, Toke Makinwa expressed a differing viewpoint, stating that she doesn’t subscribe to the idea of women sharing the payment of rent with their partners. However, Kiekie clarified her stance, noting that it’s perfectly acceptable for a woman not to contribute if she lacks the financial means. Still, if she is financially capable, Kiekie believes that sharing the financial responsibility can contribute to a healthier dynamic in the relationship.
Kiekie’s words resonated with her belief that financial partnership within a marriage extends beyond the practical aspects of bills and rent. She argued that sharing such responsibilities fosters mutual respect and equity within the relationship, preventing situations where one partner feels entitled to dictate the terms of living arrangements.
In her own words, “How would you be living in a house, and you are not paying rent? To me, it doesn’t make sense.”