Popular entertainer, Charles Chukwuemeka Oputa, also known as Charly Boy, has explained the rationale behind his advice to popular blogger, Linda Ikeji to forget marriage.
The 37-year-old Ikeji had broke the internet with pregnancy photos earlier in the week, leaving fans and foes to determine who the unborn baby’s daddy is.
But speaking via his Instagram page, the Area Fada, Charly Boy is sometimes called, said,
“For those brainless cells who couldn’t grasp why I told Linda Ikeji to forget about marriage, they don ’t make men like they used to. Most young men are just looking for someone to pay their bills . Linda has been burnt so many times by useless wayo men parading themselves as prospective husbands. Most good men are already taken. Most men don’ t have the confidence to live with an already made woman. Most women desire a very strong man , who can take charge and take care . Marriage very soon will no longer be fashionable because most people can ’t cope . Marriage is a good thing, if you’re lucky , but it’s not for everybody .”
He added that marriage has not been a bed of roses for him despite staying with the same woman for about 40 years.
Charly Boy said this informed his advice to her.
He added, “One of my daughter’ s has been a single mother after leaving a very abusive marriage. She is the best mum I know and doing well for herself . Marriage can only work for two people who understand that it is a lot of discipline and hard work . It’s not a tea party . Even some so called “Men of God” can ’t hold down a marriage.
“I have managed to survive almost 40 years with the same woman – no be sey e sweet like dat . So , mumu men should go think about their lives . It takes two to tango. Leave Linda alone . Go face your life .”.