The dating scenario changes a lot when you are in your 30s; you are more experienced, matured, you have learned many things from your mistakes, etc. In your 30s you start looking for something more than what you did in your 20s. You now notice things more deeply and you know what you really want and what you don’t. Here are 5 tips for dating in your 30s.
1. Men with settled lives
Look for men who are sorted out and are settled workwise and financially. They would then be able to focus on what kind of partner they want and put in complete efforts to find one. A younger guy who is struggling to establish his career has too much going on at the same time and wouldn’t be able to focus on you.
2. Take things slowly
You would have enjoyed the times before when getting into relationships quickly and ending it soon wouldn’t be a big deal. But now you have grown and are wiser, you can take your time and decide to get into a relationship and hold on to it. If you have found the right person, then work towards taking things forward.
3. Give enough time to yourself
Dating when you were younger meant spending most of the time together, getting involved in every activity together and enjoying yourselves. When you are in your 30s you have grown as an individual and should spend enough time doing things that you like doing alone and with your friends. You need to balance and give importance to yourself and your partner.
4. Do not drag things
You are wise enough to understand that something is not going well and is not working out which is when you need to take a firm step. It is good to put in efforts but not into something that is not worth it and wouldn’t do you any good. Don’t get emotional, be practical and take the step of moving on.
5. Look for someone who relates to you
When you reach your 30s you know quite a lot about yourself and your nature. You should look for someone who has a similar wavelength as you or at least who accepts you as you are. There shouldn’t be a lot of struggle in adjusting and making changes. The focus gets deviated from building up a strong relationship.