If you are the only one putting in time and effort in your relationship, chances are that your boyfriend’s attention could be drifting. Here are a few more signs which will help you to confirm your fears.
1. He doesn’t pamper you with gifts anymore
In the early phase of a new relationship, boyfriends pamper their girlfriends with gifts and tokens of love without a reason or an occasion. If your boyfriend has stopped giving you gifts and does not pampering you anymore with little knick knacks, it could be a tell tale sign that he is taking you for granted. He might be losing interest in your relationship because of which he doesn’t have the urge to give you gifts.
2. He forgets your birthday
It is a commonly known fact that men are not good at remembering dates. But your birthday is one day of the year that you should expect your boyfriend to remember. If your boyfriend has forgotten your birthday more than once, it is an obvious sign that his mind is occupied by other things which are seemingly more important. No matter how much he apologizes, the fact that he has forgotten your birthday more than once is enough to tell you that he is drifting away. Don’t give your boyfriend the benefit of doubt unnecessarily.
3. His night outs with friends outnumber your dates
Does your boyfriend hang out with his friends way more than he does with you? Has he ever canceled a date with you just because he wanted to spend time with his friends? If he has, you should understand that he is losing interest in the relationship. You should actually expect him to cancel his outing with friends and give priority to you.
4. He looses his temper for no reason
Every couple is likely to have fights and arguments occasionally. But if your boyfriend is losing his temper on silly matters on a daily basis for no reason, it could be an alarming situation. This may be his way of deliberately creating rifts between you both. He may also be losing his temper out of frustration of being stuck in a relationship in which he not interested anymore. If there is no other legitimate reason for your boyfriend to lose his temper, you should understand the hidden signs that he may be trying to give you.
5. He starts using ‘I’ instead of ‘we’
Couples who are in love with each other are likely to think about their future together. They like to use ‘we’ in their conversations instead of ‘I’ because they think about their life as a couple, not as individuals. The fact that your boyfriend has begun talking in first person is indicative of his feelings towards you. He may have started thinking only about himself because he has lost interest in the relationship.
6. He seems generally uninterested and aloof
Little things and minute behavioral traits are enough to let you know whether your boyfriend has any interest in your relationship or not. Compare your boyfriend to what he was a few months back. If you find that he seems a lot more disinterested and aloof than before, he might have fallen out of love with you.