We live in an ultra-modern age and there is no denying about that. Despite the improved education, thought process and lifestyle, crimes like domestic violence still galore and it is really shocking. It is even more surprising to know that some women are totally in dark regarding what amounts to domestic violence. Here are 5 facts you must know about the crime, if you are a victim or even otherwise.
1. Domestic violence includes physical, emotional and sexual abuse. Physical abuse includes violent behavior like throwing things, shoving, hitting, kicking and even biting. Yelling, threatening to cause harm or controlling another person’s action is called emotional abuse. Forcing a partner to do something they do not want to do sexually come under sexual abuse. So, if you feel you are subjected to any of these abuses, you are a domestic violence victim.
2. Whether you are subjected to one or all forms of abuse, it is bound to have physical and emotional problems. While physical violence harms the body, it can also cause emotional problems. On the other hand, emotional abuse can manifest physical illnesses. It is a vicious cycle and you need to learn to recognize the signs in the early stages of your relationship.
3. Partners who indulge in domestic violence are very insecure and they would always love to blame the other person for their behavior. If your partner blames you for their bad behavior, it is time to take action. Mistreating you even if you are at fault is a complete no-no. So, know your rights and fight for your self-respect.
4. Many people who behave violently towards their partner can also be kind and considerate at times and this makes their partner misjudge their intentions. You are most likely to experience violence after a relative calm period. So do not be taken in by the occasional kind behavior.
5. If you are in a relationship that involves domestic violence of any form, do not hesitate to get help. There is no shame in seeking help; it is the person who abuses you, who needs to be ashamed of. So at the first signs of violence, get help. It is better to nip the violence in the bud.
While there are many statistics to suggest that people of all races, religion, age, status and educational background go through domestic violence, it is not the reason to be in a violent relationship. There are ample laws to help women who are facing domestic abuse. So, know your rights and take action accordingly.