A lot of women worry that their husbands are seeing someone else behind their back. It may be that you are just hyper and nothing is actually wrong or may just be the opposite and your husband may in fact be cheating behind your back. So how exactly are you supposed to catch a cheating spouse? Well, just go through the points below and learn ways to catch a cheating spouse.
1. Check his cell phone
In many cases, cheating spouses protect their cell phones with passwords or keep chatting on the phone for a long time giving some lame excuses. You can also keep track of the messages in his cell phone. Although in all probability, he won’t be foolish enough to leave a trace, but he might also undermine your suspicion and spying capabilities.
2. Monitor his computer usage
Your husband may pretend to be working on his laptop when in reality, he may be just catching up with his new found love. You can check his browser history and files on his computer. In an extreme case, you can also install a keylogger which will give you an idea of what exactly he is typing.
3. Turn into a spy
A lot of spy gadgets are available in the market and on the Internet. GPS tracking devices, cameras and recorders are cheap ways to spy on your spouse.
4. Set a trap
Remember those movies where the wife goes out to meet her relatives or on some work and the husband does not waste any time in calling his girlfriend to the house and seems to have a hell of a time until the moment the wife returns unexpectedly? Well, it’s in fact an easy way to catch him red handed.
5. Pay attention to his looks
A guy who moves around with a beard and unkempt attire may suddenly start dressing well or going for beauty treatments. Be sure, there is something wrong.
6. Beware of his friends
His close friends may cover for him while he sees other women behind your back so take care.
7. Take help from your girl friends
So what if he uses his friends as a shield? You too have yours. Set a trap for him using one of your girl friends and see if he falls for it.
8. Keep a tab on the time of his return
If all of a sudden he starts coming back home late at night, take it as a wake up signal that something is wrong. There cannot be too much work at office everyday!
9. Keep track of his expenses
Look for warning signs as an inflated credit card bill or frequent ATM transactions without your knowledge. Ask him on the face what he is up to and if his intentions are good, he will not hide his monetary transactions from you.
10. Use a fake online profile
If you doubt that he is having an online affair(s), create a fake online profile and try to serenade him. See if he does fall for it or are you doubting him for no reason.
11. See how frequently he goes for business trips
If he seems to have business trips every other week all of a sudden, there might be something seriously wrong with it. But make sure that he is cheating before asking on his face and also make sure that your little investigations do not hamper his work life. It is equally possible that his business trips are genuine and in that case, you will be the one feeling guilty.